Embrace the Gray
How would you describe the way you process information? Do you think of yourself as more curious or judgmental? In our current electoral voting system and subsequent outcomes, people tend to label those on the other side of their ideological perspective as friends or foes. Many of us have been misjudged and disrespected for what others assume we believe before they bother to ask us where we stand on various political or spiritual issues. Has this been your experience? Have you felt this way?
Is There Dust on Your Bible?
What is it about the Bible that makes it so hard to open daily? Is it because it holds 66 books? Perhaps the verses are hard to understand, often confusing, or, as some might say, boring. Or is it simply that it doesn’t seem relevant to the issues I deal with because it was written to a people and culture so ancient that it’s become obsolete? One thing that helps me is seeing the Bible as God’s love letter to us. As I read my Bible, I see the patterns of God’s unfailing love, mercy, patience, and care for His people revealed in every book.
Actively reading our Bible will grow our faith and turn a once-unused book into a treasured means of talking to God.
No Compromise
“Think of a time in your life when you compromised just to fit in. What was the result?” This thoughtful question was posed by Max Lucado in the Bible study I’m currently doing on the Book of Revelation. I recalled the disastrous choices I made in High School and College before I became a Christian. I can’t go back and change the past. It’s been forgiven. What about you? Any time we compromise our own moral code of conduct, it will leave us feeling shame, uneasiness, and regret.
Saints, what if we weaken our ability to share the joy of walking with Jesus because we compromise our godly conduct to be accepted by our peers? Lord, help us when we fear being godly in the presence of the ungodly.
Are You Part of the Body?
Some of us have friends or know people who have said, “Nature is my church. I don’t need to attend a church to grow in my faith.” Really? All my friends who have taken that stance have gradually lost their walk with the Lord without exception. It has been said that our individual faiths are like embers. If we embers stick close together, collectively, we burst into a mighty flame of faith. Whereas embers that are separated from each other eventually fizzle out. John Piper drove this point home regarding the importance of joining small groups within our various churches by saying, “The purpose of small groups is to keep us believing.” Being part of a local church strengthens our faith.
Identifying Our Idols
Pastor JD Greear asked this question, “What is it in your life that, if you did not have it, would rob you of contentment and happiness?”
Kinney deHamel challenges us to look closely at the things that may have inadvertently taken priority in our thinking and absorb the majority of our time, talent, and treasure. Have you honestly identified the idols in your life?
Hope Springs Eternal!
Is there anything sadder to witness or more debilitating to experience than hopelessness? When we lose hope and spin into despair, we can feel as King David did in Psalm 40:2 (NKJV) when he lamented having been in “a horrible pit.” The problem with feeling hopeless is that it puts us in a mental state of being trapped with no way out and nowhere to go. Alexander Pope famously wrote, “Hope springs eternal in the human breast: Man never is, but always to be blest.” This proverb was intended to convey the idea that humans will never stop believing that things will improve.
So, how can we encourage others who feel like giving up to consider hope, even if their circumstances won’t immediately change?
Pleasing God Will Bless Others
Jeremiah 17:5 (NKJV) says, “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart departs from the Lord.” Wow! So, when I want to do nice things so people will like me, it actually means my heart is departing from God since I desire man’s approval more than His? Take a moment to think about that: God warns that we are cursed if our goal is to please people because there is an element of manipulation involved, which is never God’s way! Our motive in every action made by choice must always be to please God and to bring Him glory, rather than seeking the glory for ourselves.
How to Fortify Your Faith
Has your faith been tested lately through disappointment, crisis, chronic illness, unanswered prayer, hardship, or even betrayal? It is likely that upon seeing or hearing this question, you will respond with a resounding yes! So, what shakes up our faith? Is it a feeling that God doesn’t hear our cries, or that He is otherwise occupied or maybe we aren’t even sure what we believe anymore? If so, there is a tried-and-true remedy found in God’s Word, and this remedy comes with a reward! The key lies in our trust in God's promises. The more we entrust God with the details and essentials of our lives, the stronger our faith becomes.
Got Heart Trouble?
God warns us in Jeremiah 17:9 that “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” This is hard for us to reconcile since our culture encourages us to ‘follow your heart’ in every situation. Have you ever felt your heart deceive you, proving to be hard and uncaring upon occasion? I have. How is your heart today? Have you ever hardened your heart out of self-protection from hurt, or from fear or even from judging another harshly? If so, God has a remedy for us all.
God is our Refuge . . . Don’t Refuse Him!
Have you ever felt completely lost, alone, or forsaken? Most of us have at one time or another. In those moments of desperation, when you are crying out for help, to whom do you direct your cry? Jesus provides the perfect target for our cries. He instructed us to come to Him when we are “weary and heavy-laden,” promising that He will give us rest. He commands us over and over again to seek first His kingdom, to be still and to know that He is God, to trust in Him, to wait in silence for Him, and to be strong and of good courage because He is with us! He is our strong tower!
When God Calls You, Pick Up!
What dream for your life has gotten dusty on the shelf in the back of your mind?
What prevents us from hearing the voice of God when He is stirring us to move, to act, to become exactly who He created each of us to be? Perhaps we are spinning so fast on the “hamster wheel of life” that we can’t be still long enough to hear His still small voice saying, “DO THIS THING!”
Love Your Neighbor
Have you ever been challenged by a relationship with someone living in close proximity that it sometimes feels too close for comfort? There will be moments on this side of Heaven when we will be troubled by people who insult us, falsely accuse us, or simply rub us the wrong way. So, you might ask, how can we be more Christlike to our neighbors when getting along with them may prove to be difficult? That’s a question I asked until someone I knew provided great insight. Listen to how Kinney learned the secret to what it takes to Love Your Neighbor.
United We Stand!
What advice can you give sober-minded people who see and agree that the state of the union is in absolute disarray? Kinney deHamel addresses this concern in a way that is timely and honest. In order to be “united,” we must first Walk in His Way!
Lend Me Your Ears
The desire to become better at listening than talking has been a new and humbling skill set for me. I have learned the value of genuinely respecting others’ points of view as more important than my own, which, as it turns out, makes me a more effective ambassador for Jesus; one who extends genuine care and interest toward others.
What We Most Desire
It’s the one thing everybody wants. It’s the one thing that’s hard to come by and the one thing that only God can give. What is this elusive desire that’s highly prized? It’s the amazing gift of PEACE. Without this precious gift, we’re like a boat adrift on open water without an anchor, yearning to find the shore. But what exactly is peace and what does it bring?
Love Your Enemy
A while ago, I was really struggling with a very close relationship because the person was cruel to me in our interactions, from defaming my character to accusing me of things I had not done. I was in a rough place because I knew I was disobeying God by harboring resentment and ill will in my heart toward that person when God clearly commands us to love our enemies. I knew that holding on to hatred was terrible because, at its root, hatred is the desire to see that person destroyed. With feelings like these, I was not walking by the Spirit. What was I to do?
I Deserve It!
Gratitude comes from acknowledging God’s grace in our lives, which may take the form of wealth, amazing opportunities, and even successes we genuinely don’t deserve. If we are honest, we should be thankful for such a lovely turn of events instead of having a spirit of entitlement, which says, ‘I DESERVE this!’ How is it possible to arrive at such a conclusion? How long will we remain happy and contented? After all, happiness is a temporary feeling, whereas joy is a spiritual fruit that grows and permeates our whole being.
Confession is Good for the Soul
We often figure because we can’t see God, He doesn’t see or hear us, nor does He care when we fall off the path of godly living He cleared for us. So, what’s the big deal about minimizing, ignoring, or choosing not to own our missteps or (as the Bible calls it), sin? After all, it’s human nature to defend ourselves when we are in trouble or when we do wrong. Do you agree?
The psalmist says, “If I regard wickedness in my heart, the Lord will not hear.” In other words, the Lord does not hear my prayers to Him if I am deceiving Him by withholding confession of my sin. Yikes! I surely don’t want to put any obstacles between God and me. How about you?
Pausing to be with Jesus
IIn a perfect world, we would enjoy long moments of uninterrupted time spent in the presence of Jesus rather than carving out rare minutes here and there to focus on Him. But it’s not a perfect world, and on this side of Heaven, many of us find it difficult to abide in Christ. To abide means to have such a close relationship with Him that we sense His presence with us as we live, work, and play. If we are unplugged from the source of all that is good, then we are powerless to impact our neighborhood, our workplace, and our community, let alone our WORLD, for the gospel of Jesus Christ.
In the Waiting Room
Waiting long periods of time for things we desire: a husband, a job, a baby, a home to call our own or any number of wishes we may have, can seriously shake our faith and even cause us to doubt the power and goodness of God.
We must remember that God knows far more than we do concerning the things we pray for.